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How did you check the solenoids? Did you check them hydraulically and the electric?
Please describe this bump shift. I am not sure I understand. Does the trans jump around gears from 3 to 4th , back and forth?
What was the original failure problem?
Dont worry how old you are... it is the mileage on your body that adds up.