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Old 12-26-2012, 09:23 PM
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I do not under stand.

Man i havnt allways done the rite thing in my life, knowing it was wrong at the time and did not care and never looked back.
I have been sobor for ten years now and pretty healthy except for being a few pounds over weight.
Now my son is 27 years old healthy and fit, not a drinker or smoker! Last week
he went to the doctor with some groins pain and i be damn he has cancer.
There is no cancer that runs in our family on either side, man i was taken back to
reality so fast.
So now we will start treatment on the 14th of january, They say its very aggressive so they will treat in the same manor, My son just had there third child
2 days befor thanksgiving.
I have never been so scared in my life for my child, And would gladly take his place and pain if i could but i know life doesnt wrk that way.
He is putting on a strong face fo me i know, But if he feels anything like me then
he is going crazy.
Sorry for posting this on here, This the only way i have to vent with no one to talk to. Thank guys.

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Old 12-26-2012, 09:33 PM
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prayers coming your way..

I never smoked, or drank much , maybe twice a year,,
and my health is junk, lung and liver issues..
good luck, he'll make it.. cause he'll fight it, he has 3 kids.. that push you to fight harder than even he thinks he can..
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Old 12-26-2012, 09:58 PM
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That's some heavy news. They say everything happens for a reason and I have to believe that's true, but it sure makes you wonder sometimes...

If you are able to, give it over to God.
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Old 12-26-2012, 10:56 PM
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Sometimes it's hard for us to understand why these things happen the way they do... Remember this much.. Prayers are powerful... I will be praying for him and the family... Please share that with him.. It will all work out..
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Your family is in my prayers and am hoping for a speedy recovery.
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Old 12-27-2012, 07:56 AM
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As a Dad also, I can feel your pain and as Randy and the others have mentioned, prayers are headed out for your son and the family as well. Keep the faith and never give up - - - - may God lay his healing and comforting hands upon your and yours.
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You and your family are in my prayers, I can't imagine how anyone takes such news. God bless you all, I have known so many people who had cancer and got thru it, one just recently. She got her all clear sign, cancer free on 12-12-12! Your son will do the same!

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Old 12-27-2012, 10:40 AM
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You and your son will be in my prayers as Gearheadslife still is.

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Old 12-27-2012, 11:10 AM
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i cant imagine what your goin through. prayers on the way. i know you would trade places with your son in a heart beat. hang in there and keep us posted on this.god bless you all.
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With the new advances out their thing should work out well, Try not to beat yourself up as this will hurt you health , Your son & his family need you most now! This type of news always seems to come around the holidays. Thoughts & Prayers for all.
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cancer

i also found out this spring i had prostate cancer. also no cancer in my family either, i'm the first.. but i took to attitude there ain't a damn thing i can do about it. it's all up to the doctor.. i got 71 radio active implants.. started with a psa of 4.7 and last month it was 0.4.. i'll take that.. i do hope your family comes out ok too...
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Thanks guys for all the warm words and prayers. We want give up on this.
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Keep up the good fight. Never give up. Prayers go out.
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Thanks guys for all the warm words and prayers. We want give up on this.
You see there is a lot of prayers over you both (From your friends here)to get through this.. And you both will.. Be strong for him and give him the support he need's..
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I'm sorry to hear about your son. I know it's tough but medical science does some pretty amazing stuff anymore.

My brother had testicular cancer when he was 21. They removed one testicle and took a tumor out of his chest that was bigger than my fist and had tentacles trying to wrap themselves around his aorta. He then had to go through chemotherapy and that made him look like he was about 90 years old. He has been cancer free for thirty years now. He wasn't a drinker or a smoker, I have no clue why he got cancer but the doctors did a good job on him.

I'm praying for a good outcome.
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