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Old 11-24-2004, 12:17 AM
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Needs some advise

Yeah I know I'm a jerk around here sometimes, and my opinions are bad from time to time. But I need some advise on something personal.

A little backround. This girl (the twins) that I use to room with on the weekends, I havent seen her since last Oct., we were pretty good friends until aug. last year when something happened and I would'nt let it go. About 2 weeks later I told her I did'nt trust her anymore and pretty much got kicked out. We were still friends at that point until another 2 weeks later, me, her and a friend of hers went to a rave and she got me some ectasy for the first time. To keep it short, I had a bad reaction, first 2 hours was cool, but then my temper got out of hand when I saw her with her friend and they werent doing anything to warrant it. I really pissed her off that night/morning. To make it worse there was alot of speed mixed in with the drugs and I could'nt sleep.

The next day she called me up saying that she did'nt want to see me again, at this point in time I was still awake for something like 36 hr's and I kind of flipped out over the phone, begged her to meet with me the next day and after awhile she agreed. The next day I was still with no sleep/food. we met at a resturant and I kept my cool, tried to appologize, but she would'nt except it. She got real angry and made a scene in the resturant we were at, I paided for the beer and her food then followed her out to her car and she was furious. She had done quiet a bit of ectasy too and I never had seen her ever that pissed. anyway, I held her door open until she agreed to let me call her later on in the month(which I never did). Last thing I did was call her home when I knew she was'nt gonna be there and talked to her BF(yes she had a BF the whole time) just to find out how everything was going.

I also call her sister every now and then, maybe once a month or so to keep track of things, her sister always seems to be in a good mood and talkative.

Now, I'm moving here in a short while and I still have her number, I really miss just hanging out with her and chatting the night away or playing games. I was wondering if I should try to call her. I don't think I loved her, but I do miss her alot. She was a good friend, atleast to me.

So what do you all think? And yes, I've been drinking, that and the fact I had another nightmare about her the whole of last night. Our friendship did not end well.

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Old 11-24-2004, 12:44 AM
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Prediction? You're going to get the third degree about the drugs and the whole rest of the story will go over everybody's heads....

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Old 11-24-2004, 01:12 AM
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Prediction? You're going to get the third degree about the drugs and the whole rest of the story will go over everybody's heads....

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Thats a pretty safe bet.... wouldn't ya say Killer? sorta like you'll have a birthday in the next 365 days. Excellent prediction!


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Old 11-24-2004, 05:28 AM
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I think you should call her. If the 2 of you were friends then i am sure you can talk it out. I know when i mees up with my friends and i call i have always been forgiven, If your not forgiven chances are you were not friends to begin with... I would make sure that your clean and sober though when you call.... But i would call her..... Go for it!!!!!

I am fighting the urge to give you the drug third degree,,,,,,,the only thing i'll say is..... Do you think you would be having this problem right now if drugs were not involved????????Is it worth lost friendships?????

If you want to talk one on one please pm me......

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Old 11-24-2004, 05:50 AM
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Lets see?
*Beating your kid for not getting test right.
*The stock boys at work are picking on you.
*Now this.

You need the type of help that none of us on here are qualified to give.

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Old 11-24-2004, 07:06 AM
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Old 11-24-2004, 07:53 AM
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Centerlines been on a roll lately!

My money is this thing gets dumped!
It would be another days work well done, well another day of retirement well done!

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Old 11-24-2004, 08:23 AM
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Despite the fact that most of the people replying to this thread are being "butt"holes...

I honestly think you should call her, with your mind free and clear, tell her that you were a jerk, apologise profusely, kiss her butt...I can almost guarantee you things wont be the same as they were before right away, but with time and effort, you can develop a great friendship again.

Keep me posted on what happens. Best of luck to ya man

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Old 11-24-2004, 09:16 AM
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Common guys, a guy needs some serious advice and y'all just make fun of it. I know his post history aint the greatest but the dude still needs help.


Call her up, apologize, explain her everything, be honest, and pray for the best.







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Common guys, a guy needs some serious advice and y'all just make fun of it. I know his post history aint the greatest but the dude still needs help.

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Old 11-24-2004, 09:39 AM
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Old 11-24-2004, 11:51 AM
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In the words of a wise man...

I may disagree with what you have to say, but I shall defend to the death your right to say it.
--Voltaire

Everybody needs to quit jerking this man around. If you don't agree with what he has to say, then fine...there is an ignore feature on HR for this very same reason. But he does have a right to say it. I highly doubt he wants you to visit his threads just to bash him, he said he needed advice...if you aren't going to give it, then leave it alone.

Jeebus, some of you act so sophomoric sometimes.
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Old 11-24-2004, 11:55 AM
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Re: In the words of a wise man...

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I may disagree with what you have to say, but I shall defend to the death your right to say it.
--Voltaire

Everybody needs to quit jerking this man around. If you don't agree with what he has to say, then fine...there is an ignore feature on HR for this very same reason. But he does have a right to say it. I highly doubt he wants you to visit his threads just to bash him, he said he needed advice...if you aren't going to give it, then leave it alone.

Jeebus, some of you act so sophomoric sometimes.
Can I get a Amen?

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Old 11-24-2004, 01:22 PM
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Best of advice... Keep away from drugs. Grow up and be a man. Sorry, short, sweet and blunt, but very true.
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