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04-01-2012 01:12 PM
shine i don't speak Romanian ?????
04-01-2012 12:57 PM
against all odds Forgive me for being so bold, but is this all really about the truck?


If you have time---it's about 2 hrs. Please watch:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FtbaO...eature=related

It was on OWN a few hrs ago free, so i don't feel too bad about posting it here, even though there is a $4.95 charge at Dr.Dyer's site; Besides i feel it is too important not to share. Actually, if you like it maybe go to the site and pay $4.95 out of appreciation?

2) i kinda used to think that Oprah was kind of phony, but she's alright.

Everyone please watch.
03-29-2012 10:27 PM
General Martok
Tow Time

Ignorance and vengeance at a new level,and I didnt smash his atoms into sub-atomic particles.

The members that gave me positive reinforcement I THANK YOU.I MEAN IT.

Lets get to the photos and story about the towing.
Uhaul is worthless they wouldnt rent me a trailer or dolly to move for it was too big for there equipment,tow bar time,cheaper anyway.

I sent emails to my brother telling that I was towing out the truck and get a path clear so I could do it,they bounced back rejected 3 more times same thing rejected,all files are now on record and stored.I did what the police told me to do call them when I move it,I did and nothing happened.

Crop 6 shows the road is blocked both sides no way to get by.

Crop 11 shows the path I had to take 2 full size trucks by a tow bar.

12 shows the path that was taken, it took forever to get them out of there.

On 11 you see a pile of debris, it was wine whisky and beer cans.
The bottles of wine was huge.I dont drink but man.
I was worried my tires would be trashed ,I didnt have the time to move everything and it got very cold that night.
But 1 tire did pop a wine bottle but thank god it didnt blow out.

14 shows the trucks and I do love my chevy never thought Id write that,
but I did.That truck pulled and drove fantastic 8-10 mpg not so good.

This story is like someone said about being a sociopath magnet (against all odds) boy you hit the nail on the head.
03-29-2012 05:32 PM
chevy302builder18
Quote:
Originally Posted by Centerline
I agree. Let the legal system work. Be available to testify against your brother and his friend. BOTH of them are responsible. Your brother because he was responsible for the safety of your property and his friend who supposedly did the shooting. (I personally doubt this... I'm quite sure your brother is the one who did the actual shooting.) From the description you gave of the property and what you've said so far, I'm quite sure your truck was targeted for a reason.... because it was yours. The only one who would have done that is your brother. If his friend was shooting there are lots of other things to shoot at. Also, I strongly suspect your tools were sold to buy alcohol or drugs. Sure wouldn't be the first time this happened.

Once the legal system is done, don't look back. If it was me, I'd have no further contact with your brother. If your dad indeed knew about this and didn't tell you, screw him. Sorry if I come off as cynical or vindictive, but you already have a severely dysfunctional family and the best thing you can do is get away from it. Praying for them or hoping they'll reform themselves is nothing more than a pipe dream. It'll never happen.

Centerline
HotRodsAndHemis.com

"I'm not upset that they lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't believe them" - Friedrich Nietzsche
+2 all the way
03-29-2012 12:31 PM
shine papa always said " you cant fix stupid , you just have to avoid it so it don't rub off on you"
03-29-2012 08:39 AM
Centerline I agree. Let the legal system work. Be available to testify against your brother and his friend. BOTH of them are responsible. Your brother because he was responsible for the safety of your property and his friend who supposedly did the shooting. (I personally doubt this... I'm quite sure your brother is the one who did the actual shooting.) From the description you gave of the property and what you've said so far, I'm quite sure your truck was targeted for a reason.... because it was yours. The only one who would have done that is your brother. If his friend was shooting there are lots of other things to shoot at. Also, I strongly suspect your tools were sold to buy alcohol or drugs. Sure wouldn't be the first time this happened.

Once the legal system is done, don't look back. If it was me, I'd have no further contact with your brother. If your dad indeed knew about this and didn't tell you, screw him. Sorry if I come off as cynical or vindictive, but you already have a severely dysfunctional family and the best thing you can do is get away from it. Praying for them or hoping they'll reform themselves is nothing more than a pipe dream. It'll never happen.

Centerline
HotRodsAndHemis.com

"I'm not upset that they lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't believe them" - Friedrich Nietzsche
03-28-2012 06:52 PM
chevy302builder18
Even if it breaks your heart

Quote:
Originally Posted by Old Fool
Let the Judicial system take care of it and don't look back.

Anything else and the problems will just continue.

It sounds to me like the other family members involved have their minds made up as to how the family functions.

I say - Time to move on, raise your family as well you can, adopt your in-laws if that is doable.

Fix those bullet holes and get that truck built just as you dreamed it would be.
i like this post here^ cause its true, his family is unchangable. But now you have your own family, keep them safe, put all of them pos's behind bars. and keep dreaming even if it breaks your heart!!! Love that song LOL
03-28-2012 01:23 PM
against all odds Interpersonal relationships fascinate me---because again, i apparently, am a sociopath magnet.

i am not opposed to excercising legal options in this particular situation, but i also found this, please read:

http://www.jamesaltucher.com/2011/06...crappy-people/
03-28-2012 12:54 PM
unix Jerry Springer
03-28-2012 12:42 PM
Old Fool Let the Judicial system take care of it and don't look back.

Anything else and the problems will just continue.

It sounds to me like the other family members involved have their minds made up as to how the family functions.

I say - Time to move on, raise your family as well you can, adopt your in-laws if that is doable.

Fix those bullet holes and get that truck built just as you dreamed it would be.
03-28-2012 01:59 AM
General Martok When went back another bullet hole going from the right side of the grill

threw the cab into the bed just suddenly appeared,it tore the inners out of the dash,blew apart the plastic casings around the cluster.

But the copper jacket was stuck in the seat ,just the jacket.

My Karma is just about gone.BBBBBBBBBBut I didnt send him to Hades ,matter of fact I didnt even see him when I towed out the truck.

Abandoned Property in Pennsylvania,a person has to send a letter of notification to be removed then its 90 days from date of received letter .

I LEARNED THAT YOU HAVE TO COVER YOUR ***** take photos and document everything,scumbags find a way to counter sue dont give dirt bags a chance.

After the report is done ill put what I can up.

The tools ,were at my sec brother house a big roller craftsman top and bottom filled I put it there before I went to college,I was a plastic extruder
ele/mechanic /welder when needed.

Anyway dirt bag 3 cut the bar steel i had securing my stuff and it ended up
in his POS tool box.
03-28-2012 01:33 AM
chevy302builder18 Well i say you have great control over yourself, if i was you i woulda ran to him and fought for life and death.. Its really about being the bigger man though.

Id like to keep my negative .02 out of it but its really hard to, but i really know what your going through. Hes a bully, and violence will never solve anything. Prison, jail time, he will just come out meaner. But i believe he belongs there, nobody should get away with that. Not even family, you mess up, you pay up with losing something, Like drunk drivers loose there privaledge to drive. He disrespected you dearly it. Thats how respect goes. Treat others like you wanna be treated.
He wants to be a bully, you put him in his place. Jail
03-27-2012 07:20 PM
against all odds Thank you for telling us this story; i think the main thing is to stay positive and it appears that you are. Good for you. i don't really come from a similar background, but i do occasionally-to-frequently cross paths with psychopaths/sociopaths, so i'm not immune to H.S. either; i'm a sociopath magnet (apparently).

DEFINITIONS: H= horse.

i'm not clear on who originally took your tools?

Also in the case of the truck, i'm thinking this may boil down to your brother and friend----they will have to work it out to give you proper resolution. Is he(friend) really guilty? Let me explain.

For example, i once bought a car from a friend. The car didn't run so i asked if i could leave it in his garage and work on it---i wanted to put a 400 chevy small block in it. So i proceed to take the front end apart.

There is one small problem---the title was not in his name, it was in his mother's name. And my friend agreed to take payments on the car. Well, my friend's mother discovered the "experiment" and was FURIOUS. She actually called me at work and said, " YOU WILL PUT THE CAR BACK TOGETHER EXACTLY AS YOU FOUND IT." She also said a lot of other things that i don't exactly remember(or wish to print here) but they weren't very nice.

So i get the car back together and lose interest due to the bad taste in my mouth. They ended up having the car towed away for less than what i agreed to pay for it. i think $100 vs. my $400.

Would i have been legally on the hook for anything in this particular case? i don't know, but at the very least i probably would have had to put it back together legally.

The point is, is the friend ultimately responsible for damages? They see an "abandoned" or at least non-running truck on the property and your brother "says" oh it's just a junker, we can use it for target practice or something to that effect. So, in effect, your brother "gave" the friend permission to shoot it.

Now, SOMEONE IS responsible for damages i'm just not sure who--ultimately.

If the truck is in your name then i would immediately remove it and anything else you have there.
03-05-2012 11:45 AM
bigblockragtop You are not looking for an answer just someone to agree with you so good luck.
03-05-2012 11:01 AM
boatbob2
No Cops...........

ME,i wouldnt bother calling the cops,i would go whip his A--,then remove my truck,BEFORE i burned his truck...SCR-- this turn the other cheek crap...........
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