|11-22-2012 09:17 AM|
|11-22-2012 09:12 AM|
Henry, you thought I was serious in my comments, I was joking, there was never a case more solid without any doubt what so ever than OJ's that piece of scum killed those people. Anyone who was up on that trial knows this, it is ludicrous for someone to say they did it, they must be so out of touch it isn't funny. Take claim to some unsolved murder, these are SOLVED, OJ did it.
On the race issue, it was SICK what they did. Race had NOTHING to do with it, other than race is a factor in the DNA evidence, that is all race had to do with it.
|11-22-2012 09:08 AM|
|11-22-2012 08:13 AM|
|MyName1sMud||That's sick if true|
|11-22-2012 08:08 AM|
That is too disturbing to read, got a little bit at first and that is enough. Honestly, what is reading it good for? It's disgusting and disturbing and isn't a damn thing I can do about it, or learn from it other than to bring me down so I didn't read any further.
|11-21-2012 01:53 PM|
|malc||Read this, very disturbing.|
|11-20-2012 04:00 PM|
Basically, the mind is very complex and makes people do things that others with a normally functioning mind can't imagine.
Why isn't it top priority? Because it doesn't happen to enough people to start a revolt.
|11-20-2012 03:58 PM|
|11-20-2012 03:30 PM|
|against all odds||
i'd like to delve back into the psychology of abuse;
Why would someone like G.S.--if he did do it/sandusky etc. do something like this?
a) If you have a lot of money and/or status why risk it?
b) If you have certain urges, there are ways to divert or suppress them. For example we all love money, but most of us will not rob a bank---even if the risk of getting caught is low.
c) i'm not sure why, if one was abused themselves, why this would cause them to repeat the process?
Do you know of any links that discuss the psychology of these adverse actions? Perhaps by learning more about it we could possibly prevent it in the future? In fact, i think we need to make this a top priority in society.
|11-17-2012 02:42 PM|
O.J. Simpson comes to mind.
|11-15-2012 12:55 PM|
|11-10-2012 01:34 PM|
|11-10-2012 10:51 AM|
|malc||Never thought IŽd read about vigilante "justice" in the UK.|
|11-10-2012 09:30 AM|
And by the way, that point I made about the manipulator tossing out bait? A discussion like this is a PERFECT place for him to toss out bait. He tosses out bait to see how the other person reacts to this subject! It is the perfect place to "test the waters" and see if you are "his kind" and you can hook up, be it finding a victim or finding a fellow molester whom he can swap stories or skills.
I know this because I had it happen to me in person. Long story but I was a kid about 14 and one of my friends brought me over to an old guys house in his neighborhood who was "cool". This guy had a few teenage boys living there. He had a kick butt stereo, litterally the whole wall was speakers and stereo equipement. Now someone who grew up in the 90's or 2000's wouldn't understand but in 1972 this would have been a big deal, this guy WAS "cool". He dropped "bait" that were red flags to me, I never went back. The "bait" was things that a teenager thinks about sex, and this guy was SOOO "cool" that he was "with you" and said these things like he was a "bud". It was a red flag to me, but others, that bait is taken. Now fast forward 20 years later and I have my body shop, this guy comes in for me to work on his car! He dropped some bait talking as we are talking now about some molester who was arrested! It was a HUGE red flag for me at that point in my life and he saw this and never said another word, he barely finished the sentence in fact. I happened to be friends with a few cops in town and discussed this with one of them. He then told me that this guy HAD been on their radar for YEARS! What he did wasn't forcibly molesting boys, he found boys who were fighting with (or had accepted) their sexuality and were gay. He gave them what they wanted in male friendship, compassion and intimacy. So they weren't there against their will, and the cops could do nothing about it.
There was another guy in town who owned a record store, he always had these young boys working for him and one day I found out that he had been a teacher who was fired over allegations. Where they just "hear say"? I guess, but in standing back and looking at the big picture and how he interacted with the boys in his store it was damn obvious to me after I took off my shades and could see!
This is MUCH more complicated than one thinks, until you start understanding it a little more.
|11-10-2012 09:01 AM|
Sandusky was seen NAKED in the shower "wrestling" with a NAKED boy. I would say that is enough reason to slam someones head! If you are that much of a social illiterate you MUST be removed from any position like that. Let me put it his way, that scandal and what has came forth about what others had seen and knew is damn near destroying that college. It isn't some little hear say.
"hersay" is USUALLY a heck of a lot more than one person simply saying "he touched me". The victim is interviewed by doctors and this statement is much more than just taken as words, it is a big picture the doctors are looking for. Things have to fall into place with all the "evidence" making a puzzle until it is complete. Sure there are mistakes like in other investigations. But it is much more than just some guy pointing a finger and some innocent man going to jail.
On your waiting 30 years and every kid at 9 knows, you are very seriously lacking in an understanding of what power someone who manipulates others has. And I am happy for you that you don't have a clue, I truly am, I am happy for you. The manipulator has skills in literally MAKING you think what he or she wants you to think. You have seen Star Wars "These are not the Droids you are looking for", JUST like that, only it takes longer, they MANIPULATE, that is why they are called "Manipulators".
Handle or control (a tool, mechanism, etc.), typically in a skillful manner: "he manipulated the dials".
Alter, edit, or move (text or data) on a computer.
They take even the knowing and "alter, edit or move" the thinking of the victim.
I have been manipulated as an adult businessman was manipulated in a con to get his car done for free, and it WORKED. I can't explain the whole thing but this guy left me so whacked out it wasn't until the middle of the next day that I STARTED to understand what had happened.
"These aren't the Droids you're looking for" is an under statement, this guy made me do what he wanted me to do as skillfully as I had repaired his car. He is a PROFESSIONAL manipulator. And I soon found out with some detective work that this was his life, he lived every day manipulating everyone he came in contact with no matter how small or large, this was his life.
The person standing on the outside says "What a moron to fall for that", but they haven't a clue, just like the person who has never repaired a car in their life wouldn't believe I could pull the bed off their 2000 Chevy pickup and change the welded on bed side before lunch, the person who has never been exposed to a master manipulator can't believe that someone could "fall" for their lies.
I know one thing I will never knock the poor victim of a "pigeon drop" scheme. Pigeon drop - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Or Police Warn of Pigeon Drop Schemes and Distraction Thefts Who would be so dumb one would ask? Someone who hasn't ran into or isn't susceptible to the manipulators ways.
The manipulator tosses out bait, little tiny pieces of bait to see if he has a victim, these pieces of bait are totally harmless on their own, you wouldn't think a thing of them. When that piece of bait works for him, he tosses another, again, on it's own, it is nothing and you wouldn't think a thing, he then tosses another, and another until he has planted seeds in your mind, and he has proven to himself that he can go to another step with you, that you are "safe" and he can move on to the next step. Psychological manipulation - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
The mind is a very complex thing, what makes someone shut down and suppress bad memories, or "allow" such a horrendous thing to go on for years, many of these kids are abused for YEARS. You are going to have to delve deep into the study of mental health if you want to understand these things.
Someone standing on the outside looking in says "What a dummy to fall for that", it is pretty friggin obvious when you are standing on the outside looking in. Kind of like installing that quarter panel on a Chevy pickup, the owner of that truck who can't turn a wrench would sit there in a chair with a cup of coffee and watch me do it and then say "I didn't realize it was so easy".
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