There is one that has tabs on ea. End. Does that one go on the rear block?
> Yes. The two tabs nest inside the rear main cap.
Also the other 2 rubber gaskets one is a little shorter then the other, is the shortest of the 2 go on tc?
> Your gasket kit came with two different types of timing cover seals. Early versions of the small block used a thin timing cover gasket, later versions used a thicker gasket. The correct gasket will be determined by the OIL PAN, not the timing cover itself. Which one do you use? Check here:
Oil Pan Gasket...thin or thick
Is the RTV, black hi temp o.k. To use in ea. Corner?
> You will need to use sealant on all mating surfaces and both sides of the gaskets, not just the corners, but the corners are the most important/leak prone. Do not use a lot of sealant either, you don't want globs everywhere.
For sealant read this thread:
Best oil pan sealant?