i just got a quote from stockton in california. 41 for shipping each wheel. 209 per wheel bare (no coating) 17x9 they said they are willing to drill out the holes and and make them a 4x4.5 wheel.
They don't go up to the 9.5 that i would want but i think i can live with 9 inches.
Also they said they should be about 35 pounds each wheel, which in reality isn't really all that bad.