You may want to check on eBay...alot of times there are sets listed on there for a decent price...
Also, I am not jump on your case...but....you should read into someones answer TOO much. If you don't understand the response, please ask them to explain themself, don't automatically assume that they are putting you down or being negative about it.
We are all here to help/learn from each other...besides, I think 'ol Jon is ready to snap
...especially about what has been going on here lately with all of the fighting/negativity.
Good luck with your search for what you want, I am with you on not wanting to pay the $800 for A-Arms.