I called the inspector and he said what it is, is the GROUND rods have to be 6' apart... The meter box and service pannel can be as close as I want, just not over 10' apart. So I'm putting them within 2 feet of eachother and just using 3 wire. This is going to be a sinch now
I'm all done except the ground rods. I'm going to try to get them in tomorrow... I'll be powered up by the end of the week if all goes well. Thanks for everyones input.