Doc here,

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Is it just the one window?
Usually , the switches go bad..
To test pull the door panel carefully, and meter the plug at the motor, use a DVOM for checks set to DCV, VX50 or higher, and locate the your up and down wires on the motor, ground the meter to the BODY, and probe each wire while someone activates the switch..you should get 12 VDC in the up, and 12 Volts in the down..If not suspect the switch,
To test the motor, place 12 volts from a jumper to the up terminal and ground the motor ground, and the same for the down..it should move accordingly in each direction.
As for the lighter, If it only blows fuses when something is plugged into it, Suspect the socket, center terminal. In the very back of the unit is a connector (one wire) that may be hitting a ground when something is pressed against it..at any rate, those are like $5 bucks at auto zombie on the "HELP" tree..you can just replace it fairly easy and cheaply..
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