i had the same problem with my th350. most of ur problem is with the modulator. i had an adjustable one put in and that took away most of the problem. but also look at your vaccum line from the modulator to the intake. the line could be pinched shut, clogged, or its not getting full vaccum like it should. just be careful with the adjustable modulator... if you set it at to high of a shift you will have to drive with a very heavy foot for it to shift. in turn you will have to opposite problem you have now.