No problem dude, I'd want to be sure of anything I was doing too.
Below is a picture of the guide plate on a Trick Flow Twisted Wedge head. See how the pushrod hole is round and much wider than the pushrod itself? There's nothing to support the pushrod so it needs the guide plate to do the alignment.
Here's a picture of the factory pushrod slot in an old GM head. See how it has a slight oval shape. The flat sides of the slot support the pushrod and keep the rocker in alignment with the valve stem tip.
Also, don't use guideplates on factory GM heads unless you widen the pushrod slot. It will cause the pushrod to bind, bend and/or break. The guide plate and the factory slot will almost always be out of alignment by a few thousandths and rub the pushrod into submission.
Now for the rocker arms you mentioned. The rocker arms you mentioned that do not need guide plates, self aligning they're called. These are later model designs used because later model heads, like Vortec heads, don't have the oval shaped pushrod slots or guide plates. The stamped style factory rocker arms, like these in the picture below, drop over the sides of the valve stem tip. This allows the rocker arms to do the aligning themselves.
The aftermarket roller rocker designed for these applications have small "washers" in each side of the roller tip to keep the rocker in alignment with the valve stem tip. Here's a picture of a self-aligning roller rocker.
Regular rocker arms do not have these "washers". Here's a picture.
Do not attempt to use these self-aligning rocker arms on old style heads. The "washers" that keep them aligned with the valve stem tip will interfere with the valvespring retainer and lock and will make very bad, very expensive things happen. Just like using guide plates on factory heads without widening the pushrod slots, which is kind of like poking a hole in something just so you can spend money to fix it.
I hope that I helped to make this a bit clearer for you.
Larry