Well, it is more then just wms to wms. Some 9's/8.8 will fit some 60's will fit some 10's will fit, some Dana 44, some 8.25, and so on.
You need to look at the engines torque and transmission multiplication to see what to start with. Now you can build and beef up a Dana 44 for instance but at some point a 60 or 9" may have been a better starting point. On the other side of that you may not need a 9". If your your transmission gearing is in the high 2's. Let's just call it 3 and the engine is putting out 300 ft lbs that's only 900lbs at the pinion. Then you throw in axle ratio which without overdrive will end up around 3.73. Lets call it 4 to keep things simple. So that's 3600 lbs of torque at the wheels.
Now that's plenty within the limits of a light duty axle.
On the other hand if you are putting out 300 lbs at the engine with a 1st speed of the high 3's let's call it 4 with a overdrive that allows you to run 4.56 gearing let's call it 4.5 you now are making 5600lbs at the wheels and will be destroying light duty axle shafts, possibly a diff, and bracing the axle(adding weight) would be a good idea.
As a very GENERAL rule. Use the Dana method. ie Dana 44 has a maximum torque at the wheels of 4400lbs, 60 6000lbs, 70 7000lbs. Comparable axles will be close to the same. Now that is around where stock breaks. You can stuff money into anything and make it stronger.
Find your practical torque at your wheels number and go from there on axle choices.